Help with Brandons burial

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Created January 5th, 2021
by Brandy Hooper
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Help with Brandons burial

Back in 2016, Brandon was diagnosed with stage 4 Liver failure, because his gall bladder was infected and it attached to his liver and caused all these other issues, and they told him he had 6 months to live. Anyone who knew Brandon knows he wasn't going anywhere without a fight before he got there. Those of you who knew Brandon Wheeler, knew he was the type of person who was always there for anyone whenever they needed him and did anything he could to help someone out, no matter what was going on in his own life. These last 4 years Brandon has been fighting for his life, but he would never tell anyone that or show them either, and no matter what he was still there for anyone he could be, whenever he could. As these last 4 years went by Brandon fought the good fight until he could no longer fight anymore, but he would still never let anyone see him quit. I have been here with him off and on over these last few year's it's been a long road. As for over his last year here I have been here everyday with him and he fought some battles that he would never let anyone know or show anyone for that matter. This last year has probably been the one of the hardest times in his life for him, but he still pushed himself until he just couldn't anymore. It has been very hard time for all of us, everyone who knew him knew he was strong, a fighter, he was stubborn, hardheaded, a pain in the butt at times, and sometimes he would drive you nuts as well, lol. No matter what tho you just couldn't help but to love and care for him, as he did for everyone else he crossed paths with. Over his very last few months with us here he never let anyone know he was suffering so bad, he even tried to hide it from me, even tho I was right here with him, every step of the way and I knew better, he still would never let anyone see him quit or not help someone if he could. I'd have to say this last few month were probably the worst for him ever, his mind wanted to do so much, but his body just wouldn't let him. Trust me, he was hard to deal with at times and it was even harder to see him like this, even tho he tried to hide it from me, I knew better. We had our times we're I wanted to kick his butt and he wanted to kick mine, but I don't think either of us would have wanted it any other way. Anyone who knew Brandon knew he never gave up and would never stop fighting until the very end. No matter how difficult of a person he was to deal with sometimes, you just couldn't help but to love and care for him, cuz that's who he was. This last month was by far the worst, he could barely get out of bed most days, even tho he would push himself to do things anyways and I would tell him to stop and take it easy and tell him your going to regret this later, but he didn't care. I had to argue and fight with him to get him to take his medications most of the time, he would be throwing up more day's then not, have to force his self to eat, and so much more. He would probably kick my butt right now for telling anyone any of this. He was fighting everyday, trying to fight this battle alone and never wanted to be a burden on anyone, but he knew I wasn't going nowhere no matter what he did to try and believe me we all know he tried to push me away, he didn't want me to remember him in that way, he didn't want to burden me with his problems, I would just tell him to stop his crap I knew what I was getting into when I came here, even tho some day's were worse then other's. I would always tell him no body could ever remember him an any other way, but being Brandon Wheeler, not even me who was here everyday with him seeing him fight and him trying not to show it. Brandon fought the good fight, until he could no longer fight anymore. He will be loved and missed by so many people, and never ever forgotten, he definitely left his mark on this world that was for sure. Those of us who knew him couldn't possibly ever forget Brandon ever. So today I'm asking everyone and anyone to share this post, donate if possible. Whatever you can help with weather it's a few dollars, more then a few, or even just a simple share of this fundraiser. I'm just trying to help his family ease the cost of his burial and would love to help get him the headstone that he deserves. Everything raised with this fundraiser will go to Brandon's family to ease the rising cost of burying a loved one, as any of us know it is not a cheap or easy task to bury someone. Just so everyone is aware Brandon didn't want a service, layout, or any type of viewing. He didn't want anyone standing around crying, sad, moping, or feeling sorry about his passing, so there will not be any service for him per his request, there will only be a direct burial without anyone present, that is what he wanted, so his wishes are going to be followed the best they can be. Brandon will always live on threw the memories and the heart's of those of us who all knew, cared, and loved him so much. So let's pull together everyone and help out Brandon, as he would help anyone else who needed it. RIP Brandon Wheeler 3/2/1975 to 11/26/2020. Gone but never forgotten, forever loved and missed, until we meet again on the other side.

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