Help Me Give My Daughter the Sweet 16 She Deserves

Dear Friends, Family, and Kindhearted Strangers,

I never imagined I would be in this position, reaching out for help, but life has brought me to my lowest of lows. As a single mother, I have always done everything in my power to provide for my children, but this past year has been unbearably difficult.

Last July, my narcissistic ex came to my home and unleashed terror upon us. He tried to break down my door, threatened my life, and vandalized my front door and car with hateful, derogatory words. My children were there—watching, frozen in fear. Since that day, every knock at the door sends them into panic, a painful reminder of the trauma we endured. We were supposed to move to escape him, but that didn’t happen. I was supposed to get my daughter a new phone when hers broke, but that didn’t happen either. And worst of all, she had to leave her dream sports school because I simply couldn’t afford it. She's undeniably disappointed, but her heart is so kind and understanding, she always shows me grace. At her new school, she joined the Girl's Volleyball Team and dominated - they were undefeated and won the Championships! Despite what life throws at her, she remains humble, but I can't help but feel like I've let her down tremendously.

On top of all this, I recently lost my job. I have no parents to ask for support, and I’m struggling just to keep up with my bills and put food on the table. I feel like I’m drowning, but my biggest concern isn’t me—it’s my daughter. She has been my rock through all of this, showing strength and resilience beyond her years. She deserves something beautiful, something that reminds her she is loved, cherished, and celebrated.

She turns 16 soon, and all I want is to give her the birthday party of her dreams. She has lost so much already, and I don’t want her to lose this too. Unfortunately, I’m undergoing abdominal myomectomy surgery just a week before her birthday, which means I won’t be able to plan or decorate myself. That’s why I’m asking for help—to hire decorators, caterers, and make this day truly special for her.

My goal is to raise $10,000 to give my daughter the Sweet 16 she deserves. Every donation, no matter how small, will bring us closer to making this happen. If you are unable to donate, I completely understand, but sharing this fundraiser would mean the world to me.

From the bottom of my heart, thank you for reading, sharing, and supporting us in any way you can. Your kindness means everything to me and my children.

With love and gratitude,

Alyssa