Hi I am Donny and two weeks ago I was woken and arrested out of my own home after a woman who I dated for three months filed assault,abduction and later a third charge of domestic violence that the  prosecution threw on. I am a 38 yr old professional who has not even had a parking ticket in my 38 years. This woman has done the same thing to her ex after we starting dating.  I am,writing in hopes of bringing to your attention a dire misjustice that is occuring in our state as well as many others across the US. A battle I am currently in. Laws inacted to protect the victims of the vile crime of domestic violence are being misused by both citizens as well as law enforcement, and in this process innocent men's lives are being destroyed. In most states, the burden of proof is being thrown out and the simple word of the acuser is being taken without question, many times without the accused even being allowed to speak. I have lost my job and have spent $20,000 in legal fees. Another $10,000 if we go to trial. I have currently lost a large firearm collection that was handed down to me from my late grandfather due to this Female Malignant Narcissist. 

I am fighting for my freedom and to clear my name. I am going to have to sell my home and depending on the out come I will no longer be able to be employed in the Alarm system trade. 

Not only can a woman falsely accuse a man of domestic violence without fear of consequence, but the accused man has no voice against her. The accuser can be a mentally disturbed individual using such laws to exact her revenge against a man who simply does not want to be in a relationship anymore, and her word is automatically taken, even when no evidence is in place. The man in such cases is automatically arrested, injunctions are automatically set in place, and even if he is able to prove his innocence in court he has lost months of his life due to the fact that she cried wolf. Worse yet are the cases of these innocent men who are poor and have no means to hire private attorneys. Their public defenders assume they are guilty and therefore do only the bare necessities