Normally I don’t ask people for help but I’m out of options at this moment and I’m struggling. I’ve been dealing with domestic violence in my house for years and I’ve been stuck trying to make it better and trying to let go all at the same time trying to keep peace for my 2 kids who are 1&2. I’ve been silent about the abuse for so long that I’ve been labeled the “problem” but for years I’ve been trying to get myself together so I can have a secure place for my kids and I.I moved out of the house into a camper in the driveway because it’s easier than fighting in front of my kids everyday. My husband calls the cops on me weekly for whatever discretion he believes I’ve committed. This has been a battle of me trying to get away while learning to let go. He’s living in my parents house with my kids and recently came after me for child support which I’m unable to pay. Anything to make things as hard on me as possible. I’m not saying that to try and make people feel sorry for me I’m in a position now where I can see that my silence has done as much damage to me as his constant assaults on me have. my kids and my parents have been walking on eggshells for years because he threatens to take the kids and never come back. The reason I’m asking for help now is my husbands most recent attempt at control was to place an EPO on me for getting my computer and chainsaw out of our storage unit. The computer he bought me for work and my chainsaw was mine before we got married but he can’t stand it that I got it out without permission. Needless to say when he seen my chainsaw was gone he woke me up screaming and asking what all I took. So I told him just the chainsaw and computer. He stole my keys and phone and demanded the stuff be put back and he started threatening to call 911. He took everything I value out of my truck including my tools for work. He threw my cell phone at me and forced my dad to ride to the place where I keep the stuff he hasn’t destroyed of mine. I told him I’d get the computer because he bought it even tho it was for my work but I wasn’t going to take him over to the place with him acting like that. He followed me recklessly laying on the horn and pulling up beside me screaming until 5 or 6 people called the law and he was pulled over for driving crazy. I stopped as well and told the cops my side of the story and when all was said and done I told them I wouldn’t be back at the house tonight to give him time to cool down and I left. When the cops got done with him he followed me to my friends house and was threatening them over the computers power cord which I told him I didn’t take out the box I forgot it. He was told to leave the house and he went and filed an EPO on me. He put my house our storage unit and his work on places I can’t go and when I stopped by the house the next day for something out of my camper and he accused me of taking the kids social security cards and a few other papers and when I told him I didn’t have them he called 911 to have them serve the EPO. They came and served the EPO and I was escorted by police off my parents property away from my babies and my camper only able to grab a few things as quickly as I could. Here is my reason for asking for help, I have the video of him following me from our storage and the cops stopping us and of him threatening my friend so I believe I can get the EPO reversed when I see the judge but when I was supposed to be at court my friend took an exit that was under construction so I was walking in as my husband was coming out. So I filed paperwork to amend the EPO the next day and when I left my husbands car was parked behind me at the court house. Coincidentally my husband was washing the courthouse windows for his work. I thought nothing of it other than why would he park directly behind me until I pulled into my friends house with 2 flat tires. I looked for nails but didn’t see any and when I started to air it up I noticed the valve stem core had been loosened to create a slow leak which isn’t bad to fix you just screw it back in. This isn’t the first time he’s looses or removed a valve stem core so I know what I’m looking at and I know it don’t come unscrewed by itself. But I didn’t know my tires have a valve stem on the back of them as well and so I didn’t see it until I went to put air in it and heard the hissing. I drove probably 15 miles with the slow leak and it bubbled the tires all the way around ruining the tires. So now I’ve got no way to get to court, no way to get the things done that I need to do to get back on my feet so I can get my babies. I’ve got no money for food, no internet for trying to file paperwork for these things i need to do. I’ve got little clothes, no hygiene, no gas money to pay anyone and I can’t drive anywhere on these tires because they will blow at any moment. My truck has 22inch rims on it which were on it when my parents bought it and we just put a tire on it that he did the same thing too not 4 months ago. Those tires are 300$ each and I don’t have any of it. I don’t want to keep buying 300$ tires because he will destroy them again. So I would like to get factory tires and rims used ones that will get me by until I can fully get away. Plus if he messes up the tires after I put the factory wheels on there it will be less to replace. I found some for 300$ all 4 rims and tires in pretty good condition and would greatly appreciate anyone willing to help with this. Tires are the most important thing I need because with out them I can not do anything to help myself. I’m unable to go to my parents house due to the EPO my husband placed on me so any extra I could get after my tires would help with essentials. Food, Gas, clothes, something to wear to court, and anything else that might come about. In all actuality I’ve got so much I need. I’ve got so many things I’ve got to accomplish to get to the point where I can stand on my own and know I can support myself and kids that I have no idea where to start or what to focus on but I know that without tires I can’t do anything. I have to do this for myself for my kids. Right now I’m in the beginning of something big. Due to some horrible circumstances I’m finally forced to move and see things more clearly. My husbands abuse is holding everyone prisoner in my parents home. He’s traumatized everyone. And I just realized that what I thought was the most painful betrayal I’ll ever experience is my blessing or my grace. I’ve been so overwhelmed with all the bullshit that he pulls daily just sucking the soul right out of me. I’ve not been able to get up because I’m to busy surviving. I was graced with this little reprieve so I can get up right when I was ready to give up. I’m asking for a little help in giving me the ability to do the rest on my own. I appreciate anyone who read this. I’ve been silent for so long thank you for letting me speak my truth. God bless