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Jays' Top Surgery

  • Oshkosh, WI
  • Medical
1%

Raised

$110

of $10,000 | raised by 2 people

Top Donation $100

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Created November 9th, 2026
by Jaylin Bandemer
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Jays' Top Surgery

Hello!

I am not sure how to start this or where to go with it but if you know me i like to wing it anyway.

My name is Jaylin, yes Jaylin, and its never been anything outside of who i am. This is merely for me to become more comfortable in my own body. Many of you dont know the extent of my transition, if at all, but this is my big step into actually becoming who i want to see.

While neither male or female, i like to sit in the middle all the time and be me. Like a jelly fish almost! Floating around and enjoying the waves. I am agender, and tend to sit on the more feminine boy nature of the spectrum.

Top surgery hadnt been on my mind for a long time but now that i am coming up to nearly a year on testosterone- id like to ask for some help this time. Which for me? Big deal, i never ask for help if i dont have too.

Id do this myself but the amount needed, 10k, is a lot to come up for someone who is 'house poor' even while working a long term job. I have tried to get grants and other funding, and loans are not in the description with how much car payments are!

Either way, id appreciate any number of support whether it be sharing, donating or whatever takes you. I am taking a large leap into this since coming out this way can be potentially dangerous in all fronts. Though i am hopeful and i am willing to put into the work into what it means to be finally not be itching in my own skin.

Thank you so much,

Jaylin <3

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