Hi everyone, my name is Allyson, I’m a 31-year-old single, stay-at-home mom to three amazing young kids. I’m reaching out for help because I’m battling several serious chronic illnesses that are making it extremely difficult for me to function day-to-day—especially when it comes to caring for and bonding with my children. These health issues have taken a huge toll on my body, and my heart is breaking because I can’t create the special memories with my kids like I used to.

I’m currently suffering from spinal disc protrusions that are pinching nerves, causing severe circulation problems, numbness, and muscle spasms—especially on the left side of my body. The stiffness in my neck, shoulder, and spine has led to facial paralysis (Bell’s Palsy), numbness in the left side of my face, and intense pain. I’ve also developed Temporomandibular Joint Dysfunction (TMJ), which has worsened due to stress and involuntary jaw clenching, making my teeth and jaw misaligned. My left arm is so tense from muscle spasms that it’s affecting my ability to write and even drive.

Doctors have told me I need physical therapy and to see a neurologist urgently, but appointments are months away. In the meantime, I am at serious risk of permanent nerve damage and possibly even paralysis. That would be devastating—not only for me, but for my kids. They are my whole world. If I lost my mobility or ability to care for them, I’d risk losing custody—and I honestly don’t know how I could keep going if I couldn’t be their mom anymore.

That’s why I’m asking for your help. I need to raise money to purchase medical tools and supplements that I can use at home while I wait for medical care. These include:

• Equipment for stretching and relieving tension in my neck, spine, and muscles

• Tools to improve circulation and reduce spasms and stiffness

• A scalp massager to improve blood flow to the left side of my head, relieve pain, and support hair regrowth

• High-quality supplements for chronic fatigue and stress relief

• Emergency dental care for my TMJ condition

These items are crucial to help manage my pain, prevent further damage, and restore some of my strength—so I can be there for my kids, play with them, make memories, and just be the mom they deserve. This is very urgent and very serious. Every donation, no matter the amount, gets me one step closer to healing and holding on to the most important role in my life: being a mom.

Thank you so much for your kindness, prayers, and support during this incredibly difficult time.

the main photo I uploaded shows the Bell’s palsy. My left eye is higher up then the right and the left side of me lips are out of line and my eyes uneven and my jawline. The photo of me and my daughter with the blue bunny ears is when I was admitted to the hospital march 28th 2025. The other photos are of my kids and me before the Bell’s palsy and before I got chronically ill